Glancing at The Daily Post’s Weekly Writing Challenge: Power of Names, I was struck by an amusing coincidence.
The mention of Rumpelstiltskin.
I’ve been watching back-to-back episodes of the first season of the TV series Once Upon A Time, and last night, after having viewed the season finale… it left me contemplating the themes and ideas which it touched upon and played with intelligent imagination.
As a child I loved fairytales…
Fairytales, fables and folklore help children learn about right and wrong, values, morals, and things like that in a way which works with their minds, minds which are open to learning, absorbing everything and trying to make sense of it, filled with imagination, minds which are different from an adult’s mind in so many ways.
…some fairytales more than others. The ones which I did not like, my dislike came from feeling that somehow an injustice had occurred, that the happily ever after was flawed and not in a way which sat right with me.
Rumpelstiltskin was one of those. I did not think the happy ending was fair. The heroine of the story gets her happily ever after by making a deal to save her skin and then breaking it once her skin was saved and she didn’t need the help of the person who had saved her skin anymore. Her ally and saviour became her enemy and she defeated him without the slightest concern or care for his happily ever after which became an unhappily ever after so she could have her happily ever after. It was all about her and what she wanted, and she was rather greedy and selfish.
I realise demanding someone’s firstborn as payment for saving their life and helping them secure a happily ever after future is pushing the boundaries of propriety. A baby, even a fictional one, is a being with rights of its own… which its mother did not seem to think about when she offered it up as payment to save her own life. Of course she was not with child at the time and didn’t realise what she was doing, and she was very desperate. Desperation can skew our logic and make it illogical. Once she stopped being desperate, she viewed things differently. And of course she had power, was no longer helpless, and was with child, so…
When our circumstances change, so do we.
Rumplestiltskin (Mr. Gold) is my favourite character in Once Upon A Time. It helps that he’s played by Robert Carlyle, who is a brilliant actor, and who also seems to enjoy playing the part, imbuing his character with depth, complexity, intelligence and charm.
While waiting for my mind to shut up so I could go to sleep, I decided to play a game (one of my tactics for putting my mind to sleep, kind of similar to reading your child a bedtime story), and searched for and found a – What Once Upon A Time Character are you? – quiz.Since that was what my mind was busy discussing with itself.
Silly things can sometimes be very revealing because we are relaxed about them, our vigilance is not paying attention, as our rather self-important mind tends to dismiss the silly thing as trivial.
I wasn’t too concerned about the result of the quiz. There are a couple of characters which I would have been annoyed to get as a result, but if I did, so be it… everything is revealing, and that is my gold at the end of the rainbow.
I thought it would be fun to share the quiz (hope the quiz-makers don’t mind) and my answers and result (Yes, it’s the one which you’ve guessed).
A: Rebel at heart… because I am, have always been before I knew what name to give it. It’s an annoying trait, makes life difficult and relationships fraught with… stuff… but it can also make life interesting.
A: Help but expect something in return… mostly what I expect (but don’t necessarily expect to get) in return is respect, as in the person who asked for help realises that I made a conscious choice to help them on this one occasion. They reached out to me with a hand asking for help and I offered a helping hand. That’s a handshake deal which only applies to the one deal. I’m not signing up to provide a lifetime supply of help to them, while getting nothing in return other than more opportunities to meet their demands for help. Conditions apply on my side of the deal too. I’ll cut my hand off if need be just to break the handshake (grip of death) deal.
A: Don’t need anyone’s help… not exactly true at all, but the option I wanted was not offered. So I answered based on the attitude I tend to have when I need help, which is a stubborn insistence that I have to sort my own problems out by myself and not bother anyone else with them.
A: Avoid and hide… and observe them until you have the information needed as your back up to confront them, preferably not aggressively. Sometimes while you’re avoiding and hiding, your enemies end up taking themselves out because they’re usually their own worst enemy.
A: A little bit narcissistic with a dash of consideration to balance me out… it’s the least likely to create dramatic complications in relationships. It’s the easy option in between two difficult ones.
A: Noble… I’m not going to try and explain why I chose that, it harks back to a time before time, a feeling, a something which tends to influence my decisions and has done so since that time before time. I probably should have chosen mischievous.
A: The Lost Child… I have no idea what my family consider me to be, yet… this choice is based on a particular story which happened when I was about 5 years old, one of those incidents which becomes a metaphor in the mind for how you are perceived, your part to play in the stories of others.
A: Power… I debated quite a bit about which option to choose, then it occurred to me that all of the other options, Love, Family, Peace of Mind, were forms of power, a very personal kind of power. Thus by choosing Power, I value them all. Makes sense to me.
A: No… that does not mean that I believe in unhappy endings either. An ending is an ending, its happiness or unhappiness depends on our experience of it at the time, our perspective then, and on how we choose to perceive it in hindsight which is often coloured by our present experience of life, one which came with a new beginning after the ending.
I was pleased with this result, it’s not entirely accurate in its summation, but it is not entirely inaccurate either… and of course how I experience myself is different from how others experience me, and that is one of the reasons I love this character, especially the way that Robert Carlyle plays him.
Just a bit of fun… a bit revealing… much is still concealed, that is magic for you!