The 12th House – It All Ends in Tears

Have you ever felt that someone was hiding something from you? Have you ever sensed that you were hiding something from yourself? An intangible itch, an elusive spot to scratch which can’t quite… Continue reading

The 11th House: Stark Naked in the Classroom

I once peed myself in the middle of a History lesson… and when I say I peed myself I mean it literally and not as an expression of how horrified I was about… Continue reading

The Midheaven and 10th House: What You Want to Be and Who They Think You Are

Who do you want to be when you grow up… and when exactly will you be a grown up? What to you is the essential ingredient which makes someone a grown up as… Continue reading

The 9th House: The Quest for Meaning and Purpose

Not all who wander are lost… so why are they wandering? If they’re not trying to find their way home, following breadcrumb trails, yellow brick roads, or lights at the end of the… Continue reading

The 8th House – What is Theirs and What I Want to Make Mine

Do you like it when I ask you questions at the beginning of my posts? Does it engage you, make you feel like you’re part of the conversation as though we’re having a… Continue reading

The Descendant and 7th House – We, Us, You plus Me

I hope you’ve been enjoying my particular (and possibly peculiar) take on the houses in astrology and how to use them while attempting to read your natal chart. I ranted a bit, raved… Continue reading

The 6th House – The Doctor is in…

What’s your attitude towards your body? How do you manage your health, your diet, and your other day to day doings, comings and goings? [Me (momentarily distracted from this post by a thought… Continue reading

The 5th House – Drama, drama, drama…

What did you create today? And when you created it did you demand attention for it, for you through it? Did you want applause, accolades, a cornucopia of ‘Likes’, did you #hashtag it… Continue reading

The 4th House – Home is Where…?

Where is home for you? What do you consider to be essential for a place, perhaps a thing, or even a person to have for you to feel at home there, with it,… Continue reading

The 3rd House – How Do You Communicate?

How do you express all that stuff swirling around in your mind… How do you share your thoughts, views, perceptions, observations, your thought out feelings, etc, with others… How do you blog, or… Continue reading

The 2nd House – What is Mine, Mine, Mine

What is me, me, me is often defined by what is mine, mine, mine. While we are not necessarily what we have… what we have is something which we may use to define… Continue reading

The Rising Sign and 1st House – The Face of Me, me, me

Okay, let’s try and do this a little less chaotically (if you happened to wander into my last post – How To (Probably NOT) Read Your Astrology Chart – you’ll know what I… Continue reading

How To (probably NOT) Read Your Astrology Chart

I love astrology, and I don’t care if people think the subject is bullshit or even dangerous… The above statement is both true and untrue, and subject to fluctuations, subtleties, nuances, and complex… Continue reading

The Problems Encountered with Covert Narcissists

I just read a very interesting post – Facebook’s Whores of Deception – about the problems encountered when joining a Support Group for Victims of Narcissists. The main problem being that the Support… Continue reading

Ambulance Chasers

As I write these words the ambulance has finally arrived. The ‘ambulance chasers’ in this story are the police and the firemen, both of whom called for an ambulance… and then had to… Continue reading

Who’s More Dangerous?

Alice Miller’s work is a must read for anyone interested in child psychology, their child’s or their own inner child’s psychology, and how parenting affects the child, or how your parenting reflects your… Continue reading

There is society, where none intrudes

The other day I did it. ‘It’ being going for a healthy walk into the heart of nature… I didn’t quite reach the destination I had in mind – a beautiful lake in… Continue reading

Shallow Waters Don’t Always Run Deep

Does your mind sing to you? Does it serenade your every movement? Does it give a theme tune to your thoughts? Does it play… with your emotions, reflecting how you’re feeling in its… Continue reading

The Thinky Pain of Mars in Scorpio

. “That’s the big challenge of life—to chisel disappointment into wisdom so people respect you and you don’t annoy your friends with your whining.” ― Marc Maron . Have you ever met (and… Continue reading

Why do People Say that, Do that, Be that…?

One of the questions which has invariably gotten me into trouble in life usually begins with a – Why do people…? This question doesn’t always get me into trouble, it depends on how… Continue reading

Taking the Narcissist Test

Apparently you can determine whether you’re a Narcissist or not simply by taking this test – Narcissistic Personality Inventory. Of course it’s not really designed to determine whether or not you’re a Narcissist,… Continue reading

Answering Questions About People

I’ve done a post on – Answering Questions About Narcissists – and one on – Answering Questions About Capricorn – so I thought I’d do one on something which both of those have… Continue reading

Out of the Mouths of Capricorns

Matt Mullenweg is the creator of WordPress – he’s also a Capricorn . The other day I received a comment on one of my Capricorn posts – Do you have relationship problems with… Continue reading

Thoughts on Thinking Less of Yourself…

. The concept of ‘Radical Authenticity‘ both excites me and makes me groan… It excites me because… when people are just themselves as they are (which is always a challenge because we’re often… Continue reading

The Trump Card

There’s a lot of talk online about a certain fellow named Donald Trump… There was a bit of a discussion about him last night offline in my home… Usually when people start talking… Continue reading

Freeze it, Burn it, Blast it!

If you’re alive then you’re going to have to learn how to deal with the things which come along with being alive. Some of those things are great and well worth experiencing. You’ll… Continue reading

Relationships are ‘Easy’…

You don’t know me… even if you think you do – you don’t. Seriously… I know I do deadpan and it can be hard to know when I’m being serious and when I’m… Continue reading

Never Going to Give You Up…

No, I’m not rick-rolling… It might surprise, and perhaps disturb, you to learn that before Rick Astley became the figurehead of an internet meme and prank (that is now a bit old school… Continue reading

Dinner with Narcissists

Thank you to lansealan for suggesting the idea of  writing a post about going out to eat with a narcissist. . So, where to begin… perhaps first I should mention that most of… Continue reading

Single and Old…

. “Or maybe this is all pure gibberish—a product of the demented imagination of a lazy drunken hillbilly with a heart full of hate who has found a way to live out where… Continue reading

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