My Past Life as a Narcissist

Like with most of my posts I’m going to jump around from subject to subject, go off on tangents, ramble seemingly randomly, babble about myself, and so on… if you haven’t got the… Continue reading →

Things My Father Taught Me

My father died a few years ago… which was a bit of a surprise because he had been so convinced of his immortality that I’d begun to suspect he might be right about… Continue reading →

Challenging Structures – thoughts on Pluto versus Saturn and vice versa

At the moment astrologically I am caught in the middle of transiting Pluto squaring natal Saturn and transiting Saturn squaring natal Pluto. For those who are not into astrology this roughly translates as… Continue reading →

What Are The Defining Moments of Your Decades

I was born at the end of a decade, just before a man landed on the Moon (… or did he?). I was a bit too young to appreciate that event, or be… Continue reading →

The 12th House – It All Ends in Tears

Have you ever felt that someone was hiding something from you? Have you ever sensed that you were hiding something from yourself? An intangible itch, an elusive spot to scratch which can’t quite… Continue reading →

The 11th House: Stark Naked in the Classroom

I once peed myself in the middle of a History lesson… and when I say I peed myself I mean it literally and not as an expression of how horrified I was about… Continue reading →

The Midheaven and 10th House: What You Want to Be and Who They Think You Are

Who do you want to be when you grow up… and when exactly will you be a grown up? What to you is the essential ingredient which makes someone a grown up as… Continue reading →

The 9th House: The Quest for Meaning and Purpose

Not all who wander are lost… so why are they wandering? If they’re not trying to find their way home, following breadcrumb trails, yellow brick roads, or lights at the end of the… Continue reading →

The 2nd House – What is Mine, Mine, Mine

What is me, me, me is often defined by what is mine, mine, mine. While we are not necessarily what we have… what we have is something which we may use to define… Continue reading →

How To (probably NOT) Read Your Astrology Chart

I love astrology, and I don’t care if people think the subject is bullshit or even dangerous… The above statement is both true and untrue, and subject to fluctuations, subtleties, nuances, and complex… Continue reading →

Stepping Through a Virgo Door

. “I was looking for the key for years But the door was always open” ― Aravind Adiga . It really needs replacing, it’s knackered, it is glued together with layers of paint,… Continue reading →

Jupiter in Virgo – Overdosing on Analysis

. If you have a problem, a puzzle, an enigma, a matter which you would like to solve, an issue which is confusing you and which you would like to clarify, a knot… Continue reading →

It’s Just Not Fair! – a short story about Saturn square Sun

Do you have a sense of what is fair and what is unfair? Do others agree with you about this? If they agree with you… is that fair? Let me put it another… Continue reading →

Stimulating Uranus – Wearing yourself inside out

Have you ever worn a piece of clothing which has gradually become more and more uncomfortable, every move you make, it chafes your skin raw, digs into your flesh, scratches and itches like… Continue reading →

Astrology Tips: Making Friends with the Bad Bits

I have a friend who I can annoy very easily, and get them to react to me as though I was a Mentos dropped into a full Coke bottle, just by my mentioning… Continue reading →

What Would You Like Me to Write About?

The other day I wrote a post about how blogs are people, how what you find on a blog reflects the person behind the blog who experiences all the ups, downs, and usual… Continue reading →

The Hazards of Being Human

After forty years of careful consideration I have finally come to the conclusion… . . … of a cycle of my life. . “I came into the world under the sign of Saturn… Continue reading →

Public Enemy Number Lilith – Lilith in the 10th house with a side order of Pluto

Lilith in the 10th house in Astrology . At some point… you’re not going to like me. That’s what I always think when someone has recently met me, and is showing signs of… Continue reading →

The Ever-Changing Stillness of Moving

Hiding behind this blog, there is a person, a human being (who used to wonder if they were an alien), a people just like you (okay, not exactly like you… you can stop… Continue reading →

Venus is the new Pluto… or is Pluto the new Venus?

WARNING: This post contains the astrological musings of someone who isn’t an astrologer but loves astrology (and also someone who often talks complete nonsense which seems sensical enough to them). . . Why… Continue reading →

What Am I Doing… She asks and explains

Do you like being asked questions? Do you like answering questions? Depends on the questions, doesn’t it? What if those questions are about getting to know yourself, and the answers you give reveal… Continue reading →

Wheels keep turning…

In answer to – What’s my favourite song? This’ll do… perhaps because in Asian astrology I’m of the sign. . Something knocked me out ‘ the trees Now I’m on my knees .… Continue reading →

You are worthless and deserve to be hated for it…

. No, not you, I wasn’t speaking to you about you. You’re fine, you’re worthy and deserve to be loved for it and for everything else about you. I wasn’t speaking to the… Continue reading →

What’s Your Anger Quotient?

. Is anger your ally or your enemy? Is it your little friend or foe? What makes you angry? . . How do you deal with your anger? Are you in control of… Continue reading →

How to tell if a Capricorn woman likes you…

To be honest… rather than dishonest, I suppose… even I, a Capricorn woman, am never sure if I like someone or not. Like… is so oatmeal. . . It takes time, interest, effort,… Continue reading →

Going Around in a Circle… of stars and things

Please be aware that this post contains Astrology, if you’re allergic to it… you know what to do, you’ve survived the vicissitudes of life thus far and don’t need me to tell you… Continue reading →

Hard as Diamonds, Tough as Nails

If you observe life and yourself living it for long enough you begin to notice recurring patterns. Some of these patterns are attractive designs, they please the eye and when they are active… Continue reading →

The Rebel’s Role Model

Can you recall who your role models were when you were a child? The other day I idly asked myself this question, and before I could form an answer in a logical, methodical… Continue reading →

Born Today 7 January

One of my favourite astrologer-bloggers yet again hits the nail on the head… and blows me away with her intuitive insight. This interpretation… synchronises with my Solar return chart for this year, and… Continue reading →

I knew this friendship with myself couldn’t last forever

(the lines on the palm make a goat symbol…or at least that’s what I saw) . . “My life failed on the very day I was born.” ― Robert Bly . . Ask… Continue reading →