Pop Up Problems

The other day I clicked on a link to an article, and as I scanned it quickly from start to finish to decide whether it was worth reading it properly, the whole page… Continue reading

How To Deal With A Narcissist When You Can’t Go No Contact

If you have a Narcissist in your life and you ask for advice on how to deal with them the most common answer you will get is – Go No Contact – in… Continue reading

Shift Happens

Every now and then I find myself… not being myself anymore and not really sure of who myself is. I’m old enough these days to realise that this is a natural shift which… Continue reading

I had nothing to offer anybody except my own confusion

Have you ever stopped… paused… taken a break from the flow of your life to contemplate that flow. To travel backwards along the trail you leave behind, retracing all the twists and turns,… Continue reading

Can being with a Narcissist turn you into a Narcissist?

Can being with a Narcissist turn you into a Narcissist? This question is one I found in the search term stats of my blog along with other queries about Narcissists, such as –… Continue reading

Why Are Your Eyes Blue?

What do you fill your mind with before you go to sleep? What about when you wake up, what kind of breakfast do you give your mind? Do you think about what you… Continue reading

What Are The Defining Moments of Your Decades

I was born at the end of a decade, just before a man landed on the Moon (… or did he?). I was a bit too young to appreciate that event, or be… Continue reading

That Moment when a Narcissist goes from being Interesting to being Boring

When it comes to the question of – How do you identify a Narcissist – before you get too involved with them, invest too much of yourself in them and your relationship with… Continue reading

Artificially Intelligent Conversations

Last night I came across an amusing transcript of a conversation which someone had shared online. This conversation was between a human and an AI known as Cleverbot. Anyone who wants to can… Continue reading

It Interferes With Being Nuts

What interferes with being nuts? – you ask, because what else are you going to ask, and you’re definitely asking something so it must be that… maybe it’s not, maybe you’re not asking… Continue reading

Lead me not into temptation, I can find the way myself…

Some of you… why I oughta… hunt you down… and bottle you! You’re special sauce! You ask such great questions, make such good statements, share such awesome personal perspectives, and are brave enough… Continue reading

Evasive Manoeuvres…

Have you ever wanted to use a word, but… even if your life depended upon it you can’t remember how to spell it, or you can recall how to spell it but it… Continue reading

What Makes You… Laugh, Cry, Scream, Go Hmmm, Want to Apologise, Criticise, Smile… You?

Behind every personality there’s a person… a human being who may be complicated, simple, both at the same time… who sometimes gets forgotten because they or others are focused on the outside rather… Continue reading

a zone of noise where everything and nothing is said

That moment just before sleep… who are you? That moment in sleep… who are you? That moment just before fully awake… who are you? . Hardcore Henry is one of the weirdest film… Continue reading

Who Are You and For What Are You Searching

It’s that time of year… whatever this time of year means to and for you. For a lot of people this is a time when we review what we’ve gained and what we’ve… Continue reading

The Big Nope: Narcissists during Christmas and New Year

Every year it seems to get harder and more complex to wish people well at this time of year. What is the politically correct term to use that will not offend, upset, deeply… Continue reading

What a Trite Truism that is!

Someone recently said something in my general direction sort of in reply to something which I had said in their general direction which made me… Stop! And think about what you’re trying to… Continue reading

Under the Floorboards

Sometimes I climb the walls and lie on the ceiling… and sometimes I slip through the cracks in the floor and crawl around under the floorboards. . . A few weeks ago I… Continue reading

The 12th House – It All Ends in Tears

Have you ever felt that someone was hiding something from you? Have you ever sensed that you were hiding something from yourself? An intangible itch, an elusive spot to scratch which can’t quite… Continue reading

The 11th House: Stark Naked in the Classroom

I once peed myself in the middle of a History lesson… and when I say I peed myself I mean it literally and not as an expression of how horrified I was about… Continue reading

The Midheaven and 10th House: What You Want to Be and Who They Think You Are

Who do you want to be when you grow up… and when exactly will you be a grown up? What to you is the essential ingredient which makes someone a grown up as… Continue reading

The 9th House: The Quest for Meaning and Purpose

Not all who wander are lost… so why are they wandering? If they’re not trying to find their way home, following breadcrumb trails, yellow brick roads, or lights at the end of the… Continue reading

The 8th House – What is Theirs and What I Want to Make Mine

Do you like it when I ask you questions at the beginning of my posts? Does it engage you, make you feel like you’re part of the conversation as though we’re having a… Continue reading

The Descendant and 7th House – We, Us, You plus Me

I hope you’ve been enjoying my particular (and possibly peculiar) take on the houses in astrology and how to use them while attempting to read your natal chart. I ranted a bit, raved… Continue reading

The 6th House – The Doctor is in…

What’s your attitude towards your body? How do you manage your health, your diet, and your other day to day doings, comings and goings? [Me (momentarily distracted from this post by a thought… Continue reading

The 5th House – Drama, drama, drama…

What did you create today? And when you created it did you demand attention for it, for you through it? Did you want applause, accolades, a cornucopia of ‘Likes’, did you #hashtag it… Continue reading

The 4th House – Home is Where…?

Where is home for you? What do you consider to be essential for a place, perhaps a thing, or even a person to have for you to feel at home there, with it,… Continue reading

The 3rd House – How Do You Communicate?

How do you express all that stuff swirling around in your mind… How do you share your thoughts, views, perceptions, observations, your thought out feelings, etc, with others… How do you blog, or… Continue reading

The 2nd House – What is Mine, Mine, Mine

What is me, me, me is often defined by what is mine, mine, mine. While we are not necessarily what we have… what we have is something which we may use to define… Continue reading

The Rising Sign and 1st House – The Face of Me, me, me

Okay, let’s try and do this a little less chaotically (if you happened to wander into my last post – How To (Probably NOT) Read Your Astrology Chart – you’ll know what I… Continue reading

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