Single and Old…

. “Or maybe this is all pure gibberish—a product of the demented imagination of a lazy drunken hillbilly with a heart full of hate who has found a way to live out where… Continue reading →

When is the Silent Treatment NOT the Silent Treatment?

If you’re human… and not some alien from another planet who ended up on Earth and is stuck here (through no fault of your own, of course), because your own people have abandoned… Continue reading →

The Worst Thing To Do To A Narcissist

If you were to ask me what the worst thing I have ever done to a narcissist has been… I’d have to take a long pause to think about it while I sort… Continue reading →

By the Grace of Jupiter in Libra

(image via Greek Mythology Patheon) . If you’re into astrology beyond the whole Sun signs and magazine horoscopes aspect of it, which are interesting in a fun way but they only skim the… Continue reading →

None but ourselves can free our minds…

When did you first become aware of your mind’s ability to think for itself? And was this a good or a bad discovery for you? Did you have mixed feelings about it… and… Continue reading →

Half a Good Day… musings and whatnot

This morning I decided to check out my personal daily astrology, which I haven’t been doing lately as… I haven’t been interested in anything it had to say… because it had basically been… Continue reading →

Stepping Through a Virgo Door

. “I was looking for the key for years But the door was always open” ― Aravind Adiga . It really needs replacing, it’s knackered, it is glued together with layers of paint,… Continue reading →

What Do Narcissists Want?

If you strip away from narcissists all the accessories which people (who consider themselves not to be narcissists) give them, labels such as evil, monster, toxic, manipulative, Machiavellian, vampire, walking dead after your… Continue reading →

Paint it White

. “I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t… Continue reading →

Help or Hinder, Heal or Hurt

There are times when I secretly hope that some technical glitch will wipe out my blog. I can explain that hidden hope best by using astrology – I have Pluto in the 1st… Continue reading →

I Don’t Know Who I Am Anymore

For as long as I have known myself, been aware of something, someone, known as myself, I have gone through periods of not being certain who I was referring to when I used… Continue reading →

The Love Bombing Issue

Have you ever met someone with whom you wanted to spend all of your time. You just can’t get enough of them, you want to be with them as often as possible because… Continue reading →

How do you catch a snake in the house

I’m not asking about a symbolic snake, I’m not inquiring into how to catch a human being ‘a snake’ in your life (house), or how to catch those psyche snakes which slither inside… Continue reading →

Tales from Narcville: his brain dried up and he went completely out of his mind

“Finally, from so little sleeping and so much reading, his brain dried up and he went completely out of his mind.” ― Miguel de Cervantes . There are times in life when being… Continue reading →

Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in…

Why did I do that!?! Why did I look up in that moment, at that place, there was no reason to do so… . “Finish each day and be done with it. You… Continue reading →

Because they’re a Capricorn – is not the answer to your question

Because they’re a Capricorn is not only not the answer to your question… but it’s also not the solution to the problem which you have with them. Blaming the problems you have with… Continue reading →

Sometimes all it takes is admitting something to yourself…

. If no one invites you to dance… and you would like to dance… perhaps it’s time you just admitted to yourself that you want to dance and… either invite someone else (who… Continue reading →

Reasons to Avoid People

Avoiding people is something that I’ve been doing all my life in one form or another. If practice does indeed make perfect, then you could say that this is something I’ve perfected… .… Continue reading →

Never Wear Yellow… unless you want to be a target

It was the first time, and it wouldn’t be the last… … time that I thought it was the first time. . . Never wear yellow unless you want to be a target… …… Continue reading →

Maybe you’re right…

. “Not one of your pertinent ancestors was squashed, devoured, drowned, starved, stranded, stuck fast, untimely wounded, or otherwise deflected from its life’s quest of delivering a tiny charge of genetic material to… Continue reading →

Random personal thoughts on Brexit

If you’ve been following the news wherever you are you may have come across a few news articles discussing something known as Brexit. Recently it’s been called many other things as well. It’s… Continue reading →

that’s all anyone wants from anyone else

. “She wants to know if I love her, that’s all anyone wants from anyone else, not love itself but the knowledge that love is there, like new batteries in the flashlight in… Continue reading →

Meandering Ways

. “I don’t want to be little again. But at the same time I do. I want to be me like I was then, and me as I am now, and me like… Continue reading →

The B Team

. “Modern man has transformed himself into a commodity; he experiences his life energy as an investment with which he should make the highest profit, considering his position and the situation on the… Continue reading →

Why Do People Complain?

I have to confess that when other people start complaining I tend to make a hasty exit if I can. If I can’t make an exit and have to stick around I’ll space… Continue reading →

Book Promotion: Abundant Delicious – On Obtaining Your Heart’s Desire by Andy White

Many years ago, while searching for something to read in a secondhand bookshop, I came across – Going Mad to Stay Sane – The Psychology of Self-Destructive Behaviour by Andy White – in… Continue reading →

Narcissist – The Dream versus The Reality

Recently I’ve been watching the TV series – UnREAL. It’s a fictional account, based on the real experience of one of the creators and writers, of what goes on behind the scenes of… Continue reading →

What happens when you stare into your eyes in the mirror

What happens when you stare into your eyes in the mirror… . Halloween Greeting Card . is a search term I found in my blog stats, which caught my eye because it asked… Continue reading →

Inheriting Dysfunction

I’ve noticed that more people seem to be searching and researching what it means to be a child of narcissists. Particularly whether the condition of being a narcissist is something you can inherit… Continue reading →

Insight into the Blame Game

extract from – Blaming Justifies Your Own Bad Behavior via No Nonsense Self-Defense . The other day I came across a brilliant article which explored blaming and other aspects connected to the blame… Continue reading →