Getting to know nothing about you…

photo by Dierk Schaefer . “I am hungry, feed me; I am bored, amuse me.” ― Alexandre Dumas . Tell us something most people probably don’t know about you… This is the sort… Continue reading

The Two Opposite Sides of Knowing About Narcissism

Originally posted on apensiveheart's Blog:
In my continuing evaluation of where my life was, is, and appears to be going, I have discovered there are certain things that I know now that I sometimes wish…

You are worthless and deserve to be hated for it…

. No, not you, I wasn’t speaking to you about you. You’re fine, you’re worthy and deserve to be loved for it and for everything else about you. I wasn’t speaking to the… Continue reading

I’m Sick of All My Kicks

Three people walk into a bar… One of them gets concussion, and floats off into a blissful wonderland, where everything is peaceful, happy, and made of their favourites foods, which they can eat… Continue reading

Is Your Parent a Narcissist? – Take the Survey!

Image by V. Jarski from – Surviving the Narcissistic Parent via The Invisible Scar – please read this article if you think you’re a child of a narcissist/narcissists. . . If you missed… Continue reading

Stop Trying to Fix what is Broken…

It’s difficult isn’t it? Trying not to do something… especially once you’ve started doing it, whether physically or mentally. Many actions take place in the mind, more than in physical reality. It’s easier… Continue reading

We are an impossibility in an impossible universe

“We are an impossibility in an impossible universe.” ― Ray Bradbury . behind the scenes on the set of Aliens (via Buzzfeed) . Extraterrestrials can be found on my doorstep on such a… Continue reading

Don’t Hate Me Because I’m Beautiful

. If you’re my age or thereabouts… – which in trending terms would be the sort of person who wears flats to The Cannes Film Festival (I have no idea what the real… Continue reading

I Should Be Doing Something Else… but I’m a Fool!

. “We will never know who we are and what we want if we just stay in our old ruts. This is why we must wander a bit to grow.” ― Carol S.… Continue reading

The person exhibiting this behavior is called a menefreghista

. I am, at times, beset by a state of being, with accompanying behaviour, which is best described by an Italian word – Menefreghismo. When under the influence of such a state of… Continue reading

Welcome to the Anti-Social Social

. Have you ever wondered if you’re cursed and/or blessed with a paradox? Do you have an ability which may be natural but seems to go against your nature? Are you good at… Continue reading

The Secret Life of Feelings

. “It always shocked me when I realized that I wasn’t the only person in the world who thought and felt such strange and awful things.” ― John Green . What does enveloped… Continue reading

The Spikes and Booms of Life (and blogging)

Everything we do in life reflects us back at ourselves, not unlike a mirror only there’s more to it, which is sometimes hard to see and easy to miss. . . For instance,… Continue reading

The Wisdom of Crocodiles

“It Is The Wisdom Of Crocodiles, That Shed Tears When They Would Devour” ― Francis Bacon . . Which subject in school did you find impossible to master? . To be as honest… Continue reading

What’s Your Anger Quotient?

. Is anger your ally or your enemy? Is it your little friend or foe? What makes you angry? . . How do you deal with your anger? Are you in control of… Continue reading

Is That Embarrassing or Embracing?

I have spent countless (oops… that was almost a socially unacceptable typo – you figure it out) hours beating myself up for cringing sins, social faux-pas whiplash. You’d think a mortal would be… Continue reading

Splashed by Murky Waters

. “Life starts out with everyone clapping when you take a poo and goes downhill from there. ” ― Sloane Crosley, I Was Told There’d Be Cake . Have you ever had one… Continue reading

Everything Collapses

. “In my mind I am eloquent; I can climb intricate scaffolds of words to reach the highest cathedral ceilings and paint my thoughts. But when I open my mouth, everything collapses.” ―… Continue reading

The Reading Eye

. “Every reader, as he reads, is actually the reader of himself. The writer’s work is only a kind of optical instrument he provides the reader so he can discern what he might… Continue reading

When is the Solution to a Problem worse than the Problem?

I’m feeling a bit brain dead at the moment. The weather inside is blah with a case of the blerghs about feeling blah. But it’s nothing terminal, or serious, as far as I… Continue reading

Are Narcissists Aware that they’re Narcissists?

This is also why people might want to learn to perhaps unlearn statistics… . This post is for the person who keeps asking me this question. How aware is a Narcissist of being… Continue reading

When a Tree Crashes into to You…

“The world spins. We stumble on. It is enough.” ― Colum McCann . With the sort of winds which we sometimes get around this part of the world… they could uproot a tree… Continue reading

How to tell if a Capricorn woman likes you…

To be honest… rather than dishonest, I suppose… even I, a Capricorn woman, am never sure if I like someone or not. Like… is so oatmeal. . . It takes time, interest, effort,… Continue reading

Life on a Narcissistic Roller Coaster

When I was about 13 years old, my mother and I took a trip to New York City. The reason for the trip was so that my mother could check up on my… Continue reading

The Dangers involved in Popping Bubbles

Bubbles are fun to pop, especially when it’s bubble wrap bubbles. . . Bubblegum bubbles are a joy to pop too, however that sweet breath-filled substance has a way of bringing sticky karmic… Continue reading

It’s 5 O’Clock (in the morning) Somewhere…

. . If you think I’m going to do what you suggested that I do… by dawn’s early light… You’re not so lucid dreaming. You’ve been staring at the rising Sun and are… Continue reading

When a Nothing becomes Everything…

  . The other day, while doing that thing known as waiting… in line… for something to happen. Which in this case was being stuck in a queue at the checkout of a… Continue reading

When Narcissists Are Joy Killers

Originally posted on My Own Keeper:
Once while swimming laps several years ago, I was struck by this thought: That if I were to be happy, I’d be betraying my mother and sister.…

Understanding Human

Ask me a question such as this one – If you could wake up tomorrow and be fluent in any language you don’t currently speak, which would it be? – and the answer… Continue reading

Diamonds on Water

. . Do you ever observe all the permutations which your mind makes of that which your eyes see? In a split second it can see… The sun after a rainstorm playing with… Continue reading

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