The Ba Ba-Ba Dook Dook Dook

. What hides in the cellar of you? What monster do you look after, soothe when it gets afraid of you, feed to keep it alive, yet hide because no one else must… Continue reading

Want Doesn’t Get…

What does want not get? What does Want lack in the way of understanding? Or am I misunderstanding what this – Want doesn’t get – means? I heard this the other day while… Continue reading

The Benefits and Risks of Turning 40

Before I launch into another long post where I talk all about myself, and verbally masturbate until I selfishly orgasm, I’d like to say… Thank you very much to the wonderful person who… Continue reading

Sicksteen Candles Burning Down the House…

Can you remember who you were when you were sixteen? Do you want to remember that version of yourself? How much is your memory of the you of then coloured by who you… Continue reading

I’m Not Expecting You to LIKE Me…

When I first started interacting online using Social Media… I was terrified. I was terrified mainly because… I’m a natural lurker. . . Lurkers don’t like to expose themselves in any way, shape… Continue reading

A Summer Snow Storm of Wishes

When I was a child I was told that the seed of a thistle was a fairy, and if I captured it without harming it while it floated by, I could make a… Continue reading

Swimming Upstream in the Mainstream

If you were to write a book in which you told the story of your life – What would the name of your memoir be? That question caught my eye while I was… Continue reading

Why do we see something strange when we stare at ourselves in a mirror?

creepy pram .  “The face you give the world tells the world how to treat you.” ― Gillian Flynn . Who are you? How do you answer a question like that? How do… Continue reading

Tales from Narcville – Gender problems and Blame Games

Have you ever used the phrase – It’s not you, it’s me – and did you mean it when you used it? Did you really think it was you and not the other… Continue reading

The Ever-Changing Stillness of Moving

Hiding behind this blog, there is a person, a human being (who used to wonder if they were an alien), a people just like you (okay, not exactly like you… you can stop… Continue reading

Dangerous Innocence

Can we start over? – asked the spider of the fly. The fly wrapped up in fine silk, spun around and looked at the spider. Was the spider crazy!?! What did it mean… Continue reading

Far from the Charming Crowd

The third time may be the charm, but charm has a way of causing harm, and three is often the kind of crowd which is best avoided. What am I talking about? Good… Continue reading

Why Does This Keep Happening?

Have you ever noticed that sometimes the same thing keeps happening to you or to others, and it seems that no matter what you or others do to make something different occur… the… Continue reading

Kissing the Earth with your Feet

Baring your feet to the touch of the earth, feeling your skin against the skin of the planet. . “Walk as if you are kissing the Earth with your feet.” ― Thích Nhất… Continue reading

The Parasitic Life

At the moment there’s a patch of garden just outside of the house which has become a bumblebee graveyard. I’m not really sure why so many bumblebees are dying, or why they keep… Continue reading

Fourteen Reasons to Live and Die

Well, that’s rather a cheery title for a post, don’t you think? The Daily Post wants WordPressians to write a letter from ‘You to You’… from you in the present to your fourteen… Continue reading

The Stained Skin I’m In

Have you ever looked at your skin really closely? Up close and personal, yet without judging it, picking on it or picking at it, without noticing what is wrong with it but paying… Continue reading

That’s what people remember…

. Ah… memories… What do you think people remember about you? Is it everything you’d hoped they’d remember about you or… is it everything you’d hoped they’d forget? People have a strange way… Continue reading

Are you the Target or the Arrow?

“To be sure of hitting the target, shoot first, and call whatever you hit the target” ― Ashleigh Brilliant . Random things have a way of connecting, creating a pattern, a bit like… Continue reading

What Do You Want?

. What do you want? Really, now… what do you truly want? Do you know… really and truly know what you want? Try to cut through the gumph of what you’re supposed to… Continue reading

Venus is the new Pluto… or is Pluto the new Venus?

WARNING: This post contains the astrological musings of someone who isn’t an astrologer but loves astrology (and also someone who often talks complete nonsense which seems sensical enough to them). . . Why… Continue reading

No Contact with the Narcissist… “But, she’s your mother.”

Originally posted on My Travels with Depression:
We were born into a culture of idolising our mothers. People expect us to sit them gracefully on a pedestal, regardless of what they did, or…

Narcissist Week in Review

When I started this series on what narcissists teach us, what I’ve learned from the ones in my life, I had an idea of how I was going to do it… but… that… Continue reading

The Narcissist – Up Close and Personal

When I first started blogging… on a blog which is now defunct… . I used this as an avatar . I didn’t set out to write about narcissists at all. It didn’t even… Continue reading

The Age of the Narcissist – The Best and the Worst of it

. Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist? That’s a bit of a trick question… tricky to answer. Why? Partly because the term ‘narcissist’ hasn’t always meant what it means… Continue reading

It’s All Fun and Games Until… you realise one of the players is a Narcissist

. Let’s play a game… Let’s play… Spot the Narcissist! Imagine that you’re at a party, there are lots of people there, this place is packed and buzzing with a mix of all… Continue reading

Apocalypse Narcissist – Empathy, Sympathy, Sensitivity, and… Apathy

Why is it so difficult to figure out if someone is a narcissist or not? You’d think, after reading up on the traits and behaviours of NPD, that narcissists would be easy to… Continue reading

Love – Narcissist Style

Those who love me, follow me… My father used to say that all the time… but what did he mean by it? What he meant was that you – whoever you were, his… Continue reading

Narcissist – The Eternal Child

When they are good… they are very very good… And when they are bad… they are horrid. . . Children can be selfish, wrapped up in themselves, in their own world and version… Continue reading

The Life Lessons which Narcissists Teach

. Catch me on a bad day, when everything seems to be going belly up, when every minor irritation flares into a major inflammation, when I’m throwing myself a pity party and no… Continue reading

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