The 3rd House – How Do You Communicate?

How do you express all that stuff swirling around in your mind… How do you share your thoughts, views, perceptions, observations, your thought out feelings, etc, with others… How do you blog, or… Continue reading

The 2nd House – What is Mine, Mine, Mine

What is me, me, me is often defined by what is mine, mine, mine. While we are not necessarily what we have… what we have is something which we may use to define… Continue reading

The Rising Sign and 1st House – The Face of Me, me, me

Okay, let’s try and do this a little less chaotically (if you happened to wander into my last post – How To (Probably NOT) Read Your Astrology Chart – you’ll know what I… Continue reading

How To (probably NOT) Read Your Astrology Chart

I love astrology, and I don’t care if people think the subject is bullshit or even dangerous… The above statement is both true and untrue, and subject to fluctuations, subtleties, nuances, and complex… Continue reading

The Problems Encountered with Covert Narcissists

I just read a very interesting post – Facebook’s Whores of Deception – about the problems encountered when joining a Support Group for Victims of Narcissists. The main problem being that the Support… Continue reading

Ambulance Chasers

As I write these words the ambulance has finally arrived. The ‘ambulance chasers’ in this story are the police and the firemen, both of whom called for an ambulance… and then had to… Continue reading

Who’s More Dangerous?

Alice Miller’s work is a must read for anyone interested in child psychology, their child’s or their own inner child’s psychology, and how parenting affects the child, or how your parenting reflects your… Continue reading

There is society, where none intrudes

The other day I did it. ‘It’ being going for a healthy walk into the heart of nature… I didn’t quite reach the destination I had in mind – a beautiful lake in… Continue reading

Shallow Waters Don’t Always Run Deep

Does your mind sing to you? Does it serenade your every movement? Does it give a theme tune to your thoughts? Does it play… with your emotions, reflecting how you’re feeling in its… Continue reading

The Thinky Pain of Mars in Scorpio

. “That’s the big challenge of life—to chisel disappointment into wisdom so people respect you and you don’t annoy your friends with your whining.” ― Marc Maron . Have you ever met (and… Continue reading

Why do People Say that, Do that, Be that…?

One of the questions which has invariably gotten me into trouble in life usually begins with a – Why do people…? This question doesn’t always get me into trouble, it depends on how… Continue reading

Taking the Narcissist Test

Apparently you can determine whether you’re a Narcissist or not simply by taking this test – Narcissistic Personality Inventory. Of course it’s not really designed to determine whether or not you’re a Narcissist,… Continue reading

Answering Questions About People

I’ve done a post on – Answering Questions About Narcissists – and one on – Answering Questions About Capricorn – so I thought I’d do one on something which both of those have… Continue reading

Out of the Mouths of Capricorns

Matt Mullenweg is the creator of WordPress – he’s also a Capricorn . The other day I received a comment on one of my Capricorn posts – Do you have relationship problems with… Continue reading

Thoughts on Thinking Less of Yourself…

. The concept of ‘Radical Authenticity‘ both excites me and makes me groan… It excites me because… when people are just themselves as they are (which is always a challenge because we’re often… Continue reading

The Trump Card

There’s a lot of talk online about a certain fellow named Donald Trump… There was a bit of a discussion about him last night offline in my home… Usually when people start talking… Continue reading

Freeze it, Burn it, Blast it!

If you’re alive then you’re going to have to learn how to deal with the things which come along with being alive. Some of those things are great and well worth experiencing. You’ll… Continue reading

Relationships are ‘Easy’…

You don’t know me… even if you think you do – you don’t. Seriously… I know I do deadpan and it can be hard to know when I’m being serious and when I’m… Continue reading

Never Going to Give You Up…

No, I’m not rick-rolling… It might surprise, and perhaps disturb, you to learn that before Rick Astley became the figurehead of an internet meme and prank (that is now a bit old school… Continue reading

Dinner with Narcissists

Thank you to lansealan for suggesting the idea of  writing a post about going out to eat with a narcissist. . So, where to begin… perhaps first I should mention that most of… Continue reading

Single and Old…

. “Or maybe this is all pure gibberish—a product of the demented imagination of a lazy drunken hillbilly with a heart full of hate who has found a way to live out where… Continue reading

When is the Silent Treatment NOT the Silent Treatment?

If you’re human… and not some alien from another planet who ended up on Earth and is stuck here (through no fault of your own, of course), because your own people have abandoned… Continue reading

The Worst Thing To Do To A Narcissist

If you were to ask me what the worst thing I have ever done to a narcissist has been… I’d have to take a long pause to think about it while I sort… Continue reading

By the Grace of Jupiter in Libra

(image via Greek Mythology Patheon) . If you’re into astrology beyond the whole Sun signs and magazine horoscopes aspect of it, which are interesting in a fun way but they only skim the… Continue reading

None but ourselves can free our minds…

When did you first become aware of your mind’s ability to think for itself? And was this a good or a bad discovery for you? Did you have mixed feelings about it… and… Continue reading

Half a Good Day… musings and whatnot

This morning I decided to check out my personal daily astrology, which I haven’t been doing lately as… I haven’t been interested in anything it had to say… because it had basically been… Continue reading

Stepping Through a Virgo Door

. “I was looking for the key for years But the door was always open” ― Aravind Adiga . It really needs replacing, it’s knackered, it is glued together with layers of paint,… Continue reading

What Do Narcissists Want?

If you strip away from narcissists all the accessories which people (who consider themselves not to be narcissists) give them, labels such as evil, monster, toxic, manipulative, Machiavellian, vampire, walking dead after your… Continue reading

Paint it White

. “I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t… Continue reading

Help or Hinder, Heal or Hurt

There are times when I secretly hope that some technical glitch will wipe out my blog. I can explain that hidden hope best by using astrology – I have Pluto in the 1st… Continue reading

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