Taking the Narcissist Test

Apparently you can determine whether you’re a Narcissist or not simply by taking this test – Narcissistic Personality Inventory. Of course it’s not really designed to determine whether or not you’re a Narcissist,… Continue reading

Answering Questions About People

I’ve done a post on – Answering Questions About Narcissists – and one on – Answering Questions About Capricorn – so I thought I’d do one on something which both of those have… Continue reading

Out of the Mouths of Capricorns

Matt Mullenweg is the creator of WordPress – he’s also a Capricorn . The other day I received a comment on one of my Capricorn posts – Do you have relationship problems with… Continue reading

Thoughts on Thinking Less of Yourself…

. The concept of ‘Radical Authenticity‘ both excites me and makes me groan… It excites me because… when people are just themselves as they are (which is always a challenge because we’re often… Continue reading

The Trump Card

There’s a lot of talk online about a certain fellow named Donald Trump… There was a bit of a discussion about him last night offline in my home… Usually when people start talking… Continue reading

Freeze it, Burn it, Blast it!

If you’re alive then you’re going to have to learn how to deal with the things which come along with being alive. Some of those things are great and well worth experiencing. You’ll… Continue reading

Relationships are ‘Easy’…

You don’t know me… even if you think you do – you don’t. Seriously… I know I do deadpan and it can be hard to know when I’m being serious and when I’m… Continue reading

Never Going to Give You Up…

No, I’m not rick-rolling… It might surprise, and perhaps disturb, you to learn that before Rick Astley became the figurehead of an internet meme and prank (that is now a bit old school… Continue reading

Dinner with Narcissists

Thank you to lansealan for suggesting the idea of  writing a post about going out to eat with a narcissist. . So, where to begin… perhaps first I should mention that most of… Continue reading

Single and Old…

. “Or maybe this is all pure gibberish—a product of the demented imagination of a lazy drunken hillbilly with a heart full of hate who has found a way to live out where… Continue reading

When is the Silent Treatment NOT the Silent Treatment?

If you’re human… and not some alien from another planet who ended up on Earth and is stuck here (through no fault of your own, of course), because your own people have abandoned… Continue reading

The Worst Thing To Do To A Narcissist

If you were to ask me what the worst thing I have ever done to a narcissist has been… I’d have to take a long pause to think about it while I sort… Continue reading

By the Grace of Jupiter in Libra

(image via Greek Mythology Patheon) . If you’re into astrology beyond the whole Sun signs and magazine horoscopes aspect of it, which are interesting in a fun way but they only skim the… Continue reading

None but ourselves can free our minds…

When did you first become aware of your mind’s ability to think for itself? And was this a good or a bad discovery for you? Did you have mixed feelings about it… and… Continue reading

Half a Good Day… musings and whatnot

This morning I decided to check out my personal daily astrology, which I haven’t been doing lately as… I haven’t been interested in anything it had to say… because it had basically been… Continue reading

Stepping Through a Virgo Door

. “I was looking for the key for years But the door was always open” ― Aravind Adiga . It really needs replacing, it’s knackered, it is glued together with layers of paint,… Continue reading

What Do Narcissists Want?

If you strip away from narcissists all the accessories which people (who consider themselves not to be narcissists) give them, labels such as evil, monster, toxic, manipulative, Machiavellian, vampire, walking dead after your… Continue reading

Paint it White

. “I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t… Continue reading

Help or Hinder, Heal or Hurt

There are times when I secretly hope that some technical glitch will wipe out my blog. I can explain that hidden hope best by using astrology – I have Pluto in the 1st… Continue reading

I Don’t Know Who I Am Anymore

For as long as I have known myself, been aware of something, someone, known as myself, I have gone through periods of not being certain who I was referring to when I used… Continue reading

The Love Bombing Issue

Have you ever met someone with whom you wanted to spend all of your time. You just can’t get enough of them, you want to be with them as often as possible because… Continue reading

How do you catch a snake in the house

I’m not asking about a symbolic snake, I’m not inquiring into how to catch a human being ‘a snake’ in your life (house), or how to catch those psyche snakes which slither inside… Continue reading

Tales from Narcville: his brain dried up and he went completely out of his mind

“Finally, from so little sleeping and so much reading, his brain dried up and he went completely out of his mind.” ― Miguel de Cervantes . There are times in life when being… Continue reading

Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in…

Why did I do that!?! Why did I look up in that moment, at that place, there was no reason to do so… . “Finish each day and be done with it. You… Continue reading

Because they’re a Capricorn – is not the answer to your question

Because they’re a Capricorn is not only not the answer to your question… but it’s also not the solution to the problem which you have with them. Blaming the problems you have with… Continue reading

Sometimes all it takes is admitting something to yourself…

. If no one invites you to dance… and you would like to dance… perhaps it’s time you just admitted to yourself that you want to dance and… either invite someone else (who… Continue reading

Reasons to Avoid People

Avoiding people is something that I’ve been doing all my life in one form or another. If practice does indeed make perfect, then you could say that this is something I’ve perfected… .… Continue reading

Never Wear Yellow… unless you want to be a target

It was the first time, and it wouldn’t be the last… … time that I thought it was the first time. . . Never wear yellow unless you want to be a target… …… Continue reading

Maybe you’re right…

. “Not one of your pertinent ancestors was squashed, devoured, drowned, starved, stranded, stuck fast, untimely wounded, or otherwise deflected from its life’s quest of delivering a tiny charge of genetic material to… Continue reading

Random personal thoughts on Brexit

If you’ve been following the news wherever you are you may have come across a few news articles discussing something known as Brexit. Recently it’s been called many other things as well. It’s… Continue reading

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